GenderLife Forum: The Information Exchange

When people leave you crazy notes and freak out and you haven't got a clue what they are freaking out about but you can't find out cause they are so freaked out they block you before you can even ask what the hell is going on. I've come to the conclusion that some people .... are just crazy.

you have to deal with DHR again because of complaints, and your very attracted to the DHR agent but he is married.

You claim to be a pasicifist but recently had to use physical violence to restain someone from hurting other people.

You have to deal with a teenagers rebelious attitude and "1 day" suspension from school.

You have thoughts of giving up transition cause you might have to home school two kid's for next several years.

A father think you got AIDS because your bisexual so your thinking, im going to have to take the test again to prove I don't.

A guy that broke up with you 3 months ago wanted you back two weeks ago so you say "YES". Big mistake.

and that was a brief recap of the last 30 days

If im the most stable person in my family, I must of been born in a nut tree.

your laser hair removal stops working and five-o'clock shadow prevents you from the confidence you deserve!

Oh sorry , let me revise this because it only gets better.

So this person writes you after two years of being in the same group and never having written before . For the very first time pretending to offer freindly advice. You answer politely and timely, and then, out of the blue, they leave you crazy reply and freak out and you haven't got a clue what they are freaking out about but you can't find out cause they are so freaked out they block you before you can even ask what the hell is going on. Then they unblock you so they can say things like "oh you weren't blocked" and "You want me to leave ? " or "I wont post on another one of your threads" . Still you haven't a clue what this complete nutbar is talking on about because you never said any of this. You write them back trying to find out what excactly is their problem because really you still haven't a single clue. They don't write you back because a solution isn't exactly the goal of crazy people. So at this point it slowly begins to dawn on you that his isn't about a thing you did because a sane person would tell you why. But they aren't sane are they, they are suffering from a need for attention and control . They are loving that they have have upset you and they are playing every second of it like some incredible drama queen . Pretty soon it occurs to you that this is like some retarded prank a 12 year old boy child would pull , only they would do it better. Now you are getting angry because you have pretty much come to the conclusion that you aren't anything but a victim of this persons personality problem . And so you resign yourself to the conclusion that some people .... are just plain crazy.

End of story.

( My dear, and you know who you are, go back to your therapist and get lithium or something because you have a serious mental problem. Leave, stay, post don't post because I don't really care any more. I don't have a thing to do with you and never did. Oh and you know why I stood up for Danielleee , because she was a really good person. Someone who would give you the clothes off her back or give you her last dollar if anyone asked it just because she was who she was . You, in no way qualify and as your life is a paradise compared to some yet you whine like your everyday trival matters are some huge burden. You need to get a sense of proportion because you definately are off kilter . Good luck in your weird life )

Your pm was deleted.

you try to support a MAN's side of the issue and the person bashing that man says "your right, I agree", then turns 180 degrees and implies that you turned on them and they don't want you around.

THATS WHAT HAPPENED!!!

I thought it was best to not post a reply publically because of possilbe replies from some of the male basher in the forum and so I send it privately so as not to create any un-necassary problems.

I was so wrong.

But I was really trying to help with the problem because I really liked that person. But a few messages sent to each other, it seems were some kind of prelude to war. I think they were simple mistakes each side made and the other side just misinterpeted. Fact is: that is true.

and why can't some people just accept an appology no matter how hard you try. I gave so many options I could think of to settle the dispute before it became a grudge each would hold against the other. That person even took those sincere gestures and turned them into ammunition for their delusional campaign.

But then, the worse happened when that person esculated the hostility in a public demonstation and distorted the facts and even LIED to make their point seem more valid.

Wow my advice to them is join the Republican Party cause they are very skilled at misquoting things and putting a spin on the facts in public. Especially the lines that were meant to be funny - jeeez - it was taken from a movie.

Anyways, the thought was meant to easy any tension or harsh feelings but "NO" that person had to take everything literal I guess, and anyone who has been in this forum for long enough time knows I like to inject humor, maybe to much sometimes, into things.

I wasn't trying to be cockey or brasen or anything, just made a mistake, and unfortunatly some people can't accept the concept of forgiveness. Maybe thats a problem a lot of people have. My problem is im a whimp and always to willing to back down in any suitation unless the circumstances force me to act otherwise against that nature.

So what the friggin hell is their problem? Maybe it's a MID LIFE CRISIS they are going through. Or maybe they are a wanna be princess wanting the Drama Queens crown. (thats suppose to be humor). This forum is suppose to be about supporting each other and being there for them. But unfortunatly to many have been publically crying out it is the opposite. Im feeling that way now too. It doesn't take much for someone to feel unwanted and an outcast and to become discouraged and leave.

Why did Danielleee get self exiled? thats the message. and no one listened.

Anyways, that person who has been rude, snobbish and elitist - has made their point. And honestly I never want to associate with that person ever again. NEVER. Because their personality is to volatile and unstable. Thank the heavens they don't know me and we will never met in real world. WHY? Cause I got enough nutcases in my life already to deal with.

My advice to them is get a new shrink and be more open and honest.

You really are a mean person, just got it covered up in niceness.

Lol. Oh hon, you are in no danger of the person wanting to know you , not at all . A mistake ? Forgiveness ? Lol, the snobbish elite thing made me laugh out loud. Oh yeah , such a rude snobbish elitist , such a known fact. Oyyy ! The meanest thing this said person has ever written is in their last post . That is life so cheer up and move on .

And you know you're having a bad day when 2 people you like are flaming at each other and you haven't a clue. Oh well, guess I'll just pop open another and relax. My judgement has always been a bit distorted so no one can expect me to comprehend some of the humour here anyway!

A bad week. She is nuts. Absolutly crazy. Some of the things you posted were distorted and I tried to appologize but I guess that you have a serious personality defect about being HUMAN AND UNDERSTAND.

You are totally irrational cause why was you so angery - and says about power control - and you being a victim crap. You must be very delusional.

O.. and Im glade you did get to laugh at some of the things I wrote - but those parts were meant to be serious.

You want me to post all of the pms ? (Yes , including the one word pm (hi) that you claim was an apology) . That would clear up everything completely now wouldn't it. There was no distortion, it was exactly as I said it happened and I'm pretty sure I'm not the first victim . Yes well ,thanks for the laugh anyway.

Who is Danielleee?