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#283142 - 06/16/08 05:02 PM
Re: Gay brains structured like those of opposite sex
[Re: Natalie]
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Registered: 08/05/06
Loc: Michigan
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I've always suspicioned that a key difference between gay and trans (they're not mutually exclusive) is that trans are uncomfortable with their sex, there genitals. Gays, generally, are not. A gay’s genitals are the source of their sexual pleasure, and it would be counter to their best interest to have them surgically removed.
A trans actively pursues having their genitals altered. Then we see loooong posts here about whether they are orgasmic after SRS, and apparently some never are. How many gays would have their genitals surgically altered knowing ahead of time there was a distinct possibility they would never climax/orgasm again for the rest of their lives. In my mind there is a huge difference between gay and trans.
Assuming both trans and gay have the same risks of societal discrimination and family alienation (and I’m not sure they share the same risks – a gay walking down the street or at the family BBQ is still a guy in pants, not a man in a dress), what’s left at risk is their bodies. A trans person gambles everything on the turn of a knife; a gay gambles nothing. And, based on the ENDA debacle, the gay community in the U.S. isn’t even willing to gamble passage of legislative protections to the inclusion of trans.
Having said that, there is also a substantial percentage of trans gals who identify as lesbian. However, they are trans because of their discomfort with their genitals, not because they are lesbian.
Whew, I’ll bet I’ve put my foot in it now.
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Diana
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#283146 - 06/16/08 05:18 PM
Re: Gay brains structured like those of opposite sex
[Re: Diana]
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Registered: 01/28/03
Loc: Seattle, WA
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Personally, and I know this isn't necessarily a popular opinion, I think the separation of gay and trans at the biological level is not useful.
If you believe our identity and behaviors are biologically founded (soul or spirit aside), then generally the difference between male and female would be tendencies towards two different sets of physical and behavioral characteristics. Physical genitalia, how our brain is wired for the genitalia, secondary sex characteristics, social identity, etc. would all fall into gendered or sexual elements of who we are. Sexual preference, I would consider, is also a gendered behavior, with upwards of 90% of humans tending towards mates of the opposite sex.
Biologically, we're made up of billions of cells, trillions of synaptic connections, etc. It makes sense to me that the various portions of our brain that relate to gendered behavior such as social interaction and temperament, somatic identity, and sexual preference would vary greatly from person to person, although tending towards two polar genders.
So, in short, I consider sexual orientation a gendered behavior, and don't necessarily believe it's useful to separate gender and sex at the biological level.
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