GenderLife Forum: The Information Exchange

hi
erm i just got banned from lucy parkers site she said i was talking bout HER doctors HER surgen.... w/e i mean really i wasnt i was talking bout the dr we share and the surgens we share... shes not quite grown up enough to be able to share it would seem... i emailed her to ask why she felt this way and she just said to leave her alone why is it that all famious ts people are so stuck up? i mean i trayed to talk to jan hamilton about things and she said go and see your doctor when all i wanted to know was how things were with her after surgery how life had improved ect...then calpernia addams i know shes a busy bunny but still could answer a girls email every now and then same with all other famious people i spoke to.... why?
there all on tv and film so/.... why so nasty? can someone explain

Well first point is that when you criticize the person who owns a web site do you expect them to tolerate your insults? I do not allow insulting people to stay in my house nor do I insult others in or on their property. Second point is that there is now more information available on the web than you could possibly read in a decade. Invest a little effort and save the busy schedules of others who try but never have enough time to respond to everyone. Your time is yours and you should respect theirs which is precious to them.

How would you handle thousands of emails a day? Hmmm -- maybe create a web site where people who had a bit of time could interact and provide support to each other. And then get rid of people who criticize you personally. Does that make any sense?

sara

lucy parker can do what she wants with her life on her site too...when she had one

i talk to lucy sara and she aint got a website no more she lives in stealth ...she is getting on with her life down here and feels she just wants to live her life as a woman and not as a transsexual ...and i for one cant blame her she aint stuck up shes just a normal person getting on with her life

Btw what surgeons do u share as u aint anywhere near that stage yet as you have said in our conversations are you sara ? maybe i misheard

And jan is a lovely woman ive conversed with her many a time
how dare you slag em off they dont have to tell you what life is like post op as asking that seems a bit creepy coming from a stranger in my book

And calpernia doesnt have to answer anything nor does anyone else really

Calm down and think about things sara read back and see what you have wrote of late ...think before you post honey

im just conserned about these nice people and why they seem to treat me so bad why am i the way i am.... like i mess up so much i like lucy and all others. i think lucy does have a forum hunny

http://lucyparker24.proboards79.com

im gelious i want to have had an easy life like theres. and i cant. i hate the way some people are rich and others are poor as hell lucy will get recognized and things.

i tried adding her to msn i have her addy from the sites i use. she wont even talk to me before hand she called once that was it sid shed call back again didn't these are all such nice people and i love them so much that i simply don't like it when im rejected. i have been rejected too much. hell i got stood up AGAIN
and it hurts a lot. you know that natilie

im such a horrid person for saying those things i wish i hadnt ill message you with some stuff why.

as for surgery. yes i could. i have been known to people only as sara for over three years come November.... i simply cant wait any longer i hate the idea of another day with.... there want my life... want to be beautiful like Cali and clever like jan and successful like lucy but cant.

why am i unhappy yet on hormones? i thought it would clear everything. nope not enough

if Lucy jan or Calli or anyone else reads this. sorry is a word id attempt to use but isn't strong enough please forgive my jealousy.
i have questions for them they wont answer like whats life like in the spottlight age 19 ts and whats life like with dr xxxx whos the best surgioun how did you help your family through? im sorry i cause nothing but pain.

yes she has the forum but not a website look she deleted it lucy parker official webpage

lucy or jan dont have to answer questions that they dont want to and miss parker doesnt want to be a transsexual icon she just wants to be lucy parker...woman

sara stop feeling so sorry for yourself honey come on be strong
jealousy only makes you bitter you cant be anyone else but yourself ..and if thats not good enough for you well then im afraid you will never be happy

but buggin others then having a go at them for not answering you makes them others resent you im afraid ..i know i dont like people keeping on at me for not answering them it makes me ignore them all the more

7 months to 3 years is a big jump innit ?

love life and laughter is all that i believe

well its like 7 months on mones 3-4 years as sara and 1 and a half years full time and 3 years documented as sara nats do you wish to meet on sat as im in london? call me to arrange sara

whats this doing in music section anyway ????

oh i know its the same old song innit sara ?

lol i just switched to a different type of computer and hay there we go problem solved.

note: i wont bother registering a new email account and then registering a new account so i can talk an post on her forums. imatureity at its peak. i respect the ban although being an inapropriate thing.... erm this exposes a HUGE gap in her site security it means that no one can be banned for very long it takes what 5 mins max to boot a mac less if allready online so min 30 seconds. the sites i have been banned from unfairly in my view have made a fatal error in there security they do not block ip addresses along with mac addresses as i understand it mac addresses dont change ip's can so please if your a site desiner think about this issue i dont want, to be banned here, i thought i would expose the site issue though, sorry if miss placed in the wrong forum bit but this is an issue that demands attention asap.