GenderLife Forum: The Information Exchange

And, of course, saying "look how femmie I am that I care about dead people on Internet forums" doesn't mean anything.

For all we know, the person typing that may have six human bodies hanging from meat hooks in their garage.

PS: Not Ana, of course. She's a sweet person.

Ana this for me is a forum for Transsexual discussion, not a gay forum.

If I had a bloke come onto me at a pub and then take me home and I found out he was a she cross dressing and she didn't tell me I would be angry. I doubt I would get violent but I would not be a happy girl.

I can as I run an escort company understand how a Client would feel cheated. Being legally licensed to own an Escort agency if I was to send a cross dresser out as a GG I could be sued and would possibly loose my license. We have an area in the suburb of St Kilda where pre-op and cross dressers can work the streets and the clients know that area is for gay, trans and cross dressers and the main area is for GG's. Should a cross dresser work in the GG area and trick a client then, my goodness what would you expect would happen when the Client found out in the middle of the act?

Maybe your naive about these things, I don't know but please don't question others on this forum just because you may have taken double doses of HRT to boost your progress. I say that only so you can see whats it's like when your femininity is questioned.

To answer your question of course they concern me as does the murders in my home town. Each a tragedy in there own right. Yet this one comes in the city of Memphis. The same one were the police beat a black Ts in the booking room. You seemed to think it was ok to chime in about that. Yet when we see the same town were another TS was murdered in 2006. Followed by the beating and now Ms Whitaker murder. Is why it was brought up and singled out. Yet you choose to diminish it as just another killing in lil detroit. As if because they live there it is to be expected. Thus making it less of a loss to humanity.

PS; the 12 yr old you mention was a Vermont child. Not from memphis , One was a singer who was swiming in the river and drowned. One who died of natural causes. One they have yet to determine the cuase of death. Another with a gastrointestinal
bleed. One was found dead behind the pyramid with a gun in hand yet to be determined as to cause of death. and 3 of the 10 were a repeat of the other afore mentioned deaths.
Each a person each a loss to each persons family.
but only one murdered out of Hate for who they are since they don't fit the "norms" And because she was part of US. like it or not.

You can't change the way other people are, Ana.

You can go on caring about folks, but if others don't, that's their business.

In a way, we all get our deserved comeuppance.

I didn't diminish shit, honey. Unless "sadly" and "depressingly" are new secret code words for diminishing.

I have friends stuck in Memphis. Some of whom may or may not have worked in the sex trade before. The place is a cesspit; a wretched hive of scum and villainy. If I could afford a plane ticket for all the good people to get out and have enough money left over for barbed wire to keep the rest in, Id be on the phone with United Airlines and Tractor Supply tomorow.

I never knew Memphis was so suckie. Nashville a bit better perhaps?

Tess_Au what happen to the courier jobs? Couldn't keep employed there ? So ended up doing the exact same thing as ebony ? And you call them gay and a CD who's to say not the same thing to you darlin ? A pot calling a kettle black ?

Don't forget this person was so young you were if i recall from your post in your 30's when you transitioned and ended up same place with only lil more life understandings. I ask you would you have been so aware at your tender age of 16 when you still denied your true self.





Maybe your naive about these things, I don't know but please don't question others on this forum just because you may have taken double doses of HRT to boost
your progress. I say that only so you can see whats it's like when your femininity is questioned.

Hon to answer this question I am very low doses of hrt now seeing how i was post op before you even began your journey. And I succeeded working and even though i lost a teaching job. I found work and lived the stealth life till i returned to my hometown to ensure my parents didn't have to suffer from medical conditions that come with aging. :p

And if one feels threatened by a statement of mine about their femininity my apologies. However if one feels offended by it perhaps a introspection would be helpful.

It seems to me that Tess_Au was the first to question someone's femininity when she deemed this poor dead child to be "gay" and a "drag queen" with very little facts to support her assertion. I'm sorry but this young person's estranged family referring to her with male pronouns is proof of nothing.

Even if she is determined to be gay rather than trans, that in no way makes her death any less tragic.

Sounds like someone here posting is homophobic.

I am questioning the topic being relevant to a Trans forum such as this.

Read this > http://www.bigfooty.com/forum/showthread.php?t=461695 then apologise ..... I'll be waiting but wont hold my breath.

Oh and Ana, my mother requires care and frankly I've had Prowlers since 1997 and decided it was time to make some money out of it. Working Prowlers gives me more time at home to look after mum than the courier work ever could.

Ana you obviously have searched my posts, that says enough about you Darlin.