My wife did come out yesterday feeling she is a lesbian and still wants me as her partner.
No proclamation of sexual preference is needed. Your relationship exists between you and your partner only and there is no role for other people. All that matters is between you and your partner.
I love this monosexual manifesto
MONOSEXUAL MANIFESTO
by Miriam Scott
If a heterosexual is a person who loves someone of the opposite gender
And a homosexual is a person who loves someone of the same gender
Then we are monosexuals - people who love one person, regardless of gender
So, Monosexuals, we need to fight for our rights -
Our right to our confusion and our right to resist pigeonholing
Our right to stay in our relationships no matter what family, friends, church, society thinks
Our right to be supportive of each other
Our right to mourn the loss of our
husbands/wives, our right to embrace our gain
Our right to emotionally down days without judgment
Our right to our senses of humor
Our right to be an equal in our relationships
Our right to consideration of our feelings during the transition