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#324845 - 12/16/09 11:51 AM Shoulders and Back
ave_maria Offline
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Do you think it's possible to pass with wide shoulders and back? Is there a way I can minimize their appearance?

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#324847 - 12/16/09 01:14 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: ave_maria]
Lauren42 Online   content

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It all depends, how far are you into your hormone therapy? Generally over a couple of years a good deal of muscle mass is lost in those areas and that is what a lot of the "wide shoulders" effect is.

If you have a really wide frame, you can learn to dress to offset whatever features you want to de-emphasize.
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#324849 - 12/16/09 01:57 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: Lauren42]
ave_maria Offline
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Yeah I've been on hormones for almost 3 years now. I did lose quite a bit of bulk on my shoulders, but I just have a wide frame. Any tips on dressing to de-emphasize?

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#324851 - 12/16/09 03:25 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: ave_maria]
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ave_maria- I found the following link very helpful: http://www.susans.org/reference/dresguid.html smile ~ Rachel
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#324852 - 12/16/09 03:28 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: ave_maria]
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Wear loose clothing. Anything tight will make you look too strong.

In summer, strappy tops do wonders for strong shoulders.

In winter, a scarf around your neck draws attention away from the wide frame.

Avoid shoulder pads. Only get jackets and blouses without them, or where it's easy to take them out.

Emphasize length. Wear pants with heels, and avoid having more than one line across your body (if your blouse has a line marking the waist, about showing the line of the pants).

A big necklace also draws attention away from the shoulders. Blouses that are long but have some definition at the waist without hugging it are winners.

Throw your shoulders back when you walk. The world is yours. laugh
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#324975 - 12/18/09 10:57 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: ave_maria]
Hope_WA Offline
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Originally Posted By: ave_maria
Do you think it's possible to pass with wide shoulders and back?
I do. This is me from the back. I think you can see that I'm still pretty wide:

This is one that shows my shoulders:

Originally Posted By: ave_maria
Is there a way I can minimize their appearance?
Yep...long or 3/4 length sleeves, fitted waists and deep, narrow v-necks.
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Ghandi replied, "Oh, I don't reject your Christ. I love your Christ. It's just that so many of you Christians are so unlike your Christ."

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#324979 - 12/19/09 02:18 AM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: Hope_WA]
Marcella Offline
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Registered: 03/31/03
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Oh yes, the V-neck is a classic for the wide-shouldered woman. 3/4 sleeves, yes, I find the wide ones work best for me.

Also, strappy tops that show my full shoulder work fine in summer. It's counterintuitive, perhaps, but I've found they do minimize them, for my taste.
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This a spiritual thing and I am the laughing Buddha sitting on top of the world. Donnalee.

"Populace above, populace below! What are 'poor' and 'rich' at present! That distinction did I unlearn,—then did I flee away further and ever further, until I came to those kine." --Thus Spake Zarathustra / Friedrich Nietzsche.

http://my.funtrivia.com/tournament/Callies-quiz-75578.html

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#324992 - 12/19/09 02:40 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: Hope_WA]
Kara Thrace Offline
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Registered: 02/17/04
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Originally Posted By: Hope_WA
Originally Posted By: ave_maria
Do you think it's possible to pass with wide shoulders and back?
I do. This is me from the back. I think you can see that I'm still pretty wide:

This is one that shows my shoulders:

Originally Posted By: ave_maria
Is there a way I can minimize their appearance?
Yep...long or 3/4 length sleeves, fitted waists and deep, narrow v-necks.


I'd kill for those abs
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#325350 - 12/24/09 01:51 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: Kara Thrace]
ave_maria Offline
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Registered: 06/19/07
Loc: CA,USA
OMG, I'd do anything (besides work out and eat right) to get those abs! wow!

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#327477 - 01/21/10 02:59 PM Re: Shoulders and Back [Re: ave_maria]
ave_maria Offline
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Registered: 06/19/07
Loc: CA,USA
Ok, so I went to the site referenced above, and don't know what the hell she's talking about lol. Here is what is recommended for broad shoulders:

1). raglan sleeves, 2). dolman sleeves, 3). V-neck. 4). drop shoulders.

Obviously know what v-neck is, but what are drop shoulders, raglan sleeves and dolman sleeves?

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