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#327960 - 01/24/10 07:34 PM
Re: Tips on Passing
[Re: Lauren42]
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Registered: 01/28/03
Loc: Seattle, WA
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All, Personal mean spirited 'sparring,' while entertaining for those taking part, is not entertaining for most of us. And, if one reads the rules, it should be fairly clear that the administration doesn't look fondly at people going after either other in the public forum.
If ya have issues with another member, PM one of the moderators, ignore them, or otherwise deal with it 'out back'
Now, for back to our scheduled programming...
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I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. - Frank Herbert
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#327963 - 01/24/10 07:44 PM
Re: Tips on Passing
[Re: Roxanne]
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Registered: 01/28/03
Loc: Seattle, WA
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A few things I've noticed about folk who are start starting out. A number seem to pattern after their mothers and their mothers generation. Not surprising, actually. However, if you start dressing that part, you'll look way older than you are, and likely way older than most around you. Quite unfortunate.
Others seem to go for the teenager look. Again not surprising. Most of the images of 'womanhood' seem to consist of sexualized barely adult 'hot young things.' If you're a 20 year old, hey, you probably won't pick up too much crap dressing that. If you're 50, well, dressing like a 20 year old with skirts that are basically belts, etc...that's bound to draw some attention.
I don't think you necessarily need to dress right at your age though. I dress probably 10+ years younger than my true age. Probably 'cause I hang out with that crowd and do the same things they do (I don't have kids so I don't need to do the mom with kids stuff.)
Oh, and for goodness sake...wear clothing that fits.
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I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. - Frank Herbert
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