I think that people speaking of transgendered people might leave out the "people" part on account of most people know what they mean,
Language is constantly evolving. Kareal is just looking for some basic support, can't we be civil enough for that?
I am proud of you, Kareal. You seem to have come to a point where you can follow your calling yet retain your identity as a transgendered person. That takes a certain amount of courage, which a few of the responders probably couldn't do.
I was inspired by the story of a FtM rabbi at the Reform Jewish seminary. He has done a lot for the alphabet soup community, at least the jewish ones. This person sounds similar. You have a chance to do some good.
Some of us are out, some are stealth. To each her own.
You go, girl!