I just wanted to ask you to please ask the members here to be more "human" when posting replies and such.
When I joined here, I thought I would have support especially because of the hell I have gone through to get to this point.
Obviously, there are those who makes it their goal to destroy any meaningful post and throw it off course just to be a troll about it.
I'm leaving this site. I'm sorry but there are those here that makes it impossible to post without being slammed for something stupid. It's not worth it. I'm going through some shit now. Last thing I need are people on this site who gives a rat's ass about other people's emotions and really aims to hurt others.
I just wanted to ask you to please ask the members here to be more "human" when posting replies and such.
When I joined here, I thought I would have support especially because of the hell I have gone through to get to this point.
Obviously, there are those who makes it their goal to destroy any meaningful post and throw it off course just to be a troll about it.
I'm leaving this site. I'm sorry but there are those here that makes it impossible to post without being slammed for something stupid. It's not worth it. I'm going through some shit now. Last thing I need are people on this site who gives a rat's ass about other people's emotions and really aims to hurt others.
Just gonna pick up all your marbles and go home in a huff because the women here didn't fulfill your ego stroking quotient?
Maybe starting controversial topics - and going out of your way to offensively label people you don't agree with (or understand) isn't the way to go if you're in need of ego stroking and support.
There's a chance that those you insult will become irked and call you to task.
You were not 'slammed' - you were simply corrected, then got pissy about being corrected. If you're gonna Rage!Quit over something so trivial, then I fear for your ability to handle transition.
I went and read some of Kareal's post. Did anyone consider that maybe she is having a very rough time right now? She just came out to her mother who told her to move out of her house and verbally abuses her.
I don't know what led to this original post but I hope she comes back. Sounds like she needs some support.
#331777 - 03/07/1005:01 PMRe: To the Mods
[Re: Dana Lane]
Feral Cat Queen of the Feline Gypsies
Registered: 11/23/04
Loc: Phoenix
Unfortunately, in this forum and in any forum, things are often taken out of context. Add to that the fact that there are so many girls here who are going through a very stressful and challenging period of their lives, and there is a tendency to overreact and say things in response, that perhaps they wish they hadn't said. Heaven's knows, I have been guilty of that myself a time or two.
Kareal needs and deserves support just like any of us do. Let's not be so hard on her. Kareal, please don't leave, but do try to be cautious in the things you say, and how you react to the responses.
Pam
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I really appreciate your kindness. Yes, I am homeless right now, yes my mother is pretty bad but I remain optimistic.
Please realize I created this thread quite some time ago. I have no intentions on leaving. If i do have a gap in posting it is simply because I havent had access to a computer.
I love you all of you girls. You're my life right now.
We are here for you. I have been homeless in the past, not fun. Are there any motels in your area, that you could rent for the week or month?
I lived out of my car for several months. I was lucky I found some friends who helped me get back on my feet. It wasn't easy ,but I did it. I had to put up with a lot of crap, to get where I wanted. When you get really down, there is only one way to go . An that is up.
#332853 - 04/05/1004:37 AMRe: To the Mods
[Re: Pink Cat]
Natalie
Supreme Oracle
Registered: 01/14/04
Loc: England
annah
take no notice of some of the few put me downers here honey be strong if u can its a tough ride being trans i know that having been there and done it but you will get thru all this and come out happy and stronger
Hold on in there
Natalie x
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. Would you like some spiritual healing to fix that deafness? 
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